How To Tell Someone They’re Wrong

And, Make Them Feel Good About It...

Fortune article: There are plenty of reasons not to tell someone they’re wrong. It’s uncomfortable, for one thing. You also might come off as rigid, unsympathetic, arrogant, or worst of all, politically incorrect.

"Here’s what all the touchy-feely folks out there don’t get about constructive criticism: It’s invaluable. The important thing is how you deliver it."

"Any fool can deliver a meaningless “good job.” Being a constructive critic takes thought, effort and compassion."

Article has 8 tips for getting your good intentions across. My favorite is:

"Show Them The Way. Criticism without an action plan is worthless. Give them direction or keep your mouth shut."

Full article with the remaining 7 tips at:

http://blogs.forbes.com/stevenberglas/2011/03/22/how-to-tell-someone-theyre-wrong-and-make-them-feel-good-about-it/